The Feminine Jack Rabbit

There is a term me and my girlfriends use to describe a man with a specific type of sexual energy.

We call him the Jack-Rabbit.

This is when a man cannot hold the hunger of his sex in your presence.
He is so starving.
That he just wants to extract the juice without presence.
If you end up going to bed with this man.
You are going to spend a lot of time adjusting him.
Because he wants to Jack-Rabbit the shit out of you. And take, take, take.

Without attention on your body, pace or what it takes for the feminine system to open.

Sex is an escape for the Jack-Rabbit.

Now, no judgement.
We all have responsibility to take here.

A lot of women will judge the Jack-Rabbit but f*ck him anyway.
She will then blame him for “taking something from her” when she willingly gave it away.
She will secretly enjoy the voilation of the Jack Rabbit.

There was a period a few years ago when I was fresh from a break-up.
I was actively choosing emotional sobriety and doing a deep cleanse of my relationship patterns.

As I cleaned up my energetic field.
I kept calling in Jack-Rabbits.

Men who could not hold themselves in my presence.

They wanted everything right now.
Now there is a part of me that loves that kind of desperation in a man.
I am a partial YES.

I had to learn to speak to myself with love.
Because there was no moving forward without a fully integrated yes.

This process taught me how to actually say NO.
Even when I was hungry.
Extractive sex is expensive on my system.
A bill I’m no longer willing to pay.

Even if that kind of fast-fucking can be fun from time to time.
This period of NO really set me up to really know what a full - all parts of me - kind of YES feels like.

As I kept examining this behavior, I saw this same pattern in myself.

I call this: The Feminine Jack Rabbit.

She does this same dance with faux love.
The grippy kind.
That clamps around his heart.
She cannot hold herself in the presence of a man.
She is obsessed with what she can “get” from him.
She decides it’s hers to have and she wants it all now.
The “White Horse” conditioning takes over.
And her mission is set.

She manipulates and fawns to get what she wants.
She forces his heart open by smothering him in love he is not yet open to receive.

She uses “loving him” as a way to avoid herself.

She asks him to hold the intensity she feels in her body without knowing how to do it herself.

Like the Jack-Rabbit, she just goes, goes, goes.

Emasculating him and energetically pushing him further away.
Ignoring signals that he is blown out and has left the room.
This actually disguises that she is not actually available.

A lot of men will judge the shit out of this woman, but date her anyway.

And then complain to the boys about what an intense b!tch she is.

Not taking responsibility that rescuing her and judging her makes him feel powerful.

The Feminine Jack-Rabbit recovers when she has potent AF clarity.
When she does the work to actually be available.
She can actually hold herself.

In her own opening and her own availability.
From this pose, she is able to fully see him.
Without the projection.

By using her powerful AF feminine operating system that is deeply attuned to the perfect resonant timing.
Of all things.
No force is needed.

She loves her intensity and uses it to fuel herself.
This naturally nurtures and fuels him.
This woman has the kind of deep faith that has been deeply lost in our culture.

She trusts above all else.
Trusts the process.
Trusts him.
Trust herself.

And if there is anything I know that men need, is to have a presence in their life that has them trust everything that they can’t yet see.

Happy three year anniversary to this post!

Calling forth my Feminine Jack Rabbits...

See yourself here?

I see parts of myself loud and clear.

Let me know what this piece calls open for you.

Would love to hear from you.

I love you,

Olivia